The Chase

Oh some of us...me mostly.

We love the Chase. The ridiculous chase.

We are on the high of does he love, does he not? Will he call, will he not? Will he text, will he not? We somehow translate this high into "spark" or even "love".......

Then when suddenly we have no one paying attention to us, we come crashing back down. Then we look to Plan B or the Back Burner to see if our steady stand by is there. Sometimes that Plan B is the person we love and should be with but the thrill of the chase keeps us from seeing it. So then we are at the bottom of the sea thinking no one loves us cause the chase is ended.

Wait did the phone just ring? HOLD. Wait, not him. Get the scuba gear. Back to the bottom of the sea.

Many questions this will open up....is the chase the unrealistic attention that can't sustain a real relationship? Our can it actually turn into a real relationship?

What about the people that don't go after the chase; they simply just wont take the risk. They seem to fall in love and stay committed. All without the highs and lows of the chase.

The chase is your ego getting a boost. If you have the self esteem you should and love yourself. The chase won't give you the highs and lows. It will just be people coming and going. And if they really love you for you they'd still be there. Sooo if there not. Who cares!!!!!

Time to go make me feel good about me :)

xo,
Penelope