It's okay to be sad

Right.
The break up.

We all know that if it ends....it was for a reason. If we break up, it's broken...

So in the beginning we are angry, yelling, upset. Then our girlfriends surround us with love and attention and we feel empowered, sure, and independent.

But the dust settles and then comes the sadness.

It's strange to "mourn" the loss of a relationship; because the person you are "mourning" is right in front of you. So wouldn't it be easier just to run back and relieve the sadness?

A HUGE AMOUNT OF WOMAN run back to the wrong relationships at this point. Because they just aren't okay with being sad.

You need to know if you missing a relationship that is one you really want or one you really don't. This has to be done separate of the sadness.

Don't fill the void with the same mistake that you'll find yourself back at square one all over again....if it's really broken, it's okay.

Be sad. Be okay with the sadness. Cry. Make a mixed tape of Phil Collins, Police and Air Supply. But don't run for comfort.

Be strong. You'll get through it. Promised.

Love yourself, you won't be sad forever.
xo,
Penelope